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Wednesday, November 22, 2006

please cuddle me...

November 14, 2006

Today is a good day you know. God granted my request to have a salary in excess of 5500 php. It will have its uses you know. I am just in a sense worried about it. I will have no allocation for my review expenses. That is because I have to prepare money for this Christmas. It’s just a little pressuring on my part since I have to save a lot so that I could buy gifts. Hay naku talaga.

I need to work today. I can’t indulge on this bad habit you know. It is not appropriate. And the fact that I am not seen is not ethically correct you know. This is not right. I should not do this more often. You see, yesterday, I have done nothing but scribbled down in papers and plan for other stuff. I also exhausted my emotions on what I had felt with our relationship. Well, all of it is true. I considered it to be the utmost confession of my fears about us. As of now, I am still trying so hard to isolate myself from him. I want to do things one at a time. I felt that I am somehow succeeding in isolating myself from him.

I am indeed hoping that everything will be more successful for me. I have to isolate myself from him… it’s for my own good… and most importantly… for my own safety. I need to be as independent as possible. I can be dependent on other stuff… you know that well for a fact. But when it comes to him… that’s so difficult to say… that so difficult to judge… that’s so difficult to do… I can’t be dependent on him just as fast as that. That is exactly what I am doing right now… I am doing it slowly, yet surely. I want to make him feel that there is other stuff that is taking my time, effort and attention more. That he has to wait; that he is not the only one who can set relationship aside to focus more on other stuff. I have to prove to myself that I can still be alone and that I don’t need him all the time… that I can be happy though were are not seeing each other; or talking to each other.

I felt bad because I know that I am trying so hard to prove this without him even recognizing that there is something bad going on. Well, I have to start this busy stuff by myself; and I will need to continue this at least until next week by 11-23-06. I have to do a lot of stuff especially that the review session will start by 11-20. We have to meet by 11-24, in which I think that’s the time that I have to make him feel that I am so tired; and I need some pampering. In truth; I really have to be so tired because I need to sleep at night. Otherwise, I will be awake again, waiting for him for FIVE hours to make the first move! It’s so annoying yet I have to exercise caution in this since I have to prove to him and to myself that there is no attachment. That it is not so big deal.

I have to work for a while you know… they are not paying me to sit here and use their computer for nothing. Catch you later! J

Why am I sleepy so early at this time? You know what; I didn’t have a good sleep this morning. I woke up around 5 pm so sweaty and so not really in a pleasant state. He has no texts and he didn’t even call me. I know that he is also busy, well, and that’s exactly the right time to be busy for me too. In truth and in substance, my happy days are over. I will be facing the biggest challenge of my life… my CPA board exam. I really need to master the art of concentration. I really need to know how to do one stuff at a time. But, I am really so sleepy at this moment. What shall I do? I felt I was overworked last week and I felt that the customer may get mad at me as soon as I followed this up again… gosh! I need to achieve my target of 80%!!! Golly badoodle!


At last its 12:25… I can sleep in just a few minutes… I am so sleepy… I am so, so drastically with no energy… oh golly… i remember Fredi just now… just a quick memory… oh shocks… he is really good in … but after it, he was so disappointing… really. But he was so honest to me when he told me that, the feeling of it after that was he just wants to sleep! Sleep! I told him that now I understand it; it so good because he had made an effort to be honest with me and spill out the fact that it was the truth. That his strength was just so down after that; well I have to understand that. But, how can make him understand that as I hush down, I need his presence with me... I need him to cuddle with me… I want him beside me so that I can feel secure and safe… but how can I make that happen?

Well, I still have to work. It is still three hours before we can go home. We cannot have anymore overtimes that are not allowed and pre-approved by our team leads. Anyway, I have been working here for almost four months yet I haven’t got the chance to describe what I do here. I am a receivables analyst for American President Lines Logistics. It is one of Maersk’s competitors in Asia. I know I am somehow good in what i do. i know i can do well with the collections and I can easily do functions on stuff that are assigned to me. I know i could've done better and I can really succeed in mastery of the Collections. However, I am really now decided to pursue what my heart desire's... I am willing to pursue the choice which will affect bigger part of my future and that of the family that I was trying to build. I am keen enough to suffer for those that I love... and those that i will love in the future.

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