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10 Books that Screwed Up the World

This post is taken up from www.listverse.com

Me: This is an interesting post. I learned a lot from the synopsis; in fact, it kinda actually makes me want to read some of them. If you would ask me, i would put Hitler's "Mein Kempf" on the top spot. Nonetheless, the author of this post seem to be very knowledgeable with these works. Enjoy!

Books are one of our greatest resources, but many times in history books have been written which are misleading or untrue. In some cases this has lead to widescale death and destruction and evil governmental regimes.

This is a list of ten of the worst books of this type – books that have done more harm than good. The common thread in all of these books is deception – invariably not intentional, but the consequences are the same regardless.

I have intentionally left off some of the more obvious choices – as they will almost certainly come up in the comments. This list is in no particular order.

10

Malleus Maleficarum

Heinrich Kramer and Jacob Sprenger, 1486

 On the list because: It inflamed witch hunts across Europe

Malleus Maleficarum (The Hammer of Witchraft) was a manual for witch hunters and judges to catch witches and stamp them out. It came out just prior to the protestant reformation and it was one of the most popular books amongst the reformers who were wanting to smash “evil” out of their countries. Between 1487 and 1520, twenty editions of the Malleus were published, and another sixteen editions were published between 1574 to 1669. This book single-handedly launched centuries of witch hunts.

9

Coming of Age in Samoa

Margaret Mead, 1928

  

On the list because: it turned out to be a creation of her own sexual confusions and aspirations

Margaret Mead was an American cultural anthropologist who traveled to Samoa to answer the questions on sexuality posed in America in the 1920s (particularly with reference to women). Unfortunately for Mead, the youths she interviewed in Samoa told her wild tales of sexual promiscuity and Mead reported it all as fact. One of the girls later said: “She must have taken it seriously, but I was only joking. As you know, Samoan girls are terrific liars when it comes to joking. But Margaret accepted our trumped up stories as though they were true.” If challenged by Mead, the girls would not have hesitated to tell the truth, but Mead never questioned their stories. According to Wikipedia: “The use of cross-cultural comparison to highlight issues within Western society was highly influential, and contributed greatly to the heightened awareness of Anthropology and Ethnographic study in the USA.” Interestingly, Mead was a highly regarded academic and had a large part in the formulation of the 1979 American Book of Common Prayer (Church of England).

8

The Prince

Niccolò Machiavelli, 1532

On the list because: it was the inspiration for a long list of tyrannies (Stalin had it on his nightstand)

The Prince is a treatise meant for rulers who had shed all scruples – to a point that they might see evil as potentially more beneficial to society than good. Machiavelli hoped to start a revolution in the hearts of his readers, and he certainly achieved that. He proudly stated things that others before him had only dared to whisper, and he whispered things that had not even been considered. According to Machiavelli “it is not necessary for a prince to have all the above-mentioned qualities [merciful, faithful, humane, honest, and religious], but it is indeed necessary to appear to have them. Nay, I dare say this, that by having them and always observing them, they are harmful; and by appearing to have them they are useful.” Some of the people inspired by this book are Stalin, Hitler, Mussolini, and Napoleon I of France.

7

Mein Kampf

Adolf Hitler, 1925

  

On the list because: it helped spread Hitler’s genocidal anti-Semitism

In Mein Kampf, Hitler outlined his racist plan for a new Germany which included mass murder of Jews, and a war against France and Russia to make living space for Germans. At the time of publication the book was largely ignored, but once Hitler rose to power that changed. It is believed that over 10 million copies were in circulation in 1945. The book is largely influenced by The Crowd: A Study of the Popular Mind by Gustave Le Bon (1895) which suggested propaganda as a means to controlling the irrational behavior of crowds. In addition, Hitler drew on the fabricated Protocols of the Elders of Zion to give support for the need for his anti-semitic plans. Hitler speaks of “The Jewish Peril” which he believed was a conspiracy by Jews to take over the world. The book outlines the racial worldview in which people are classified by race as superior or inferior. In 2003 the sequel to Mein Kampf, Zweites Buch, was published in English for the first time. Zweites Buch (Second Book) expands on the original ideas of Mein Kampf and outlines further plans for a war with the United States and the British Empire for entire world domination by Germany.

6

The Pivot of Civilization

Margaret Sanger, 1922

On the list because: it preaches eugenics

Margaret Sanger is the mother of modern contraception and the founder of Planned Parenthood. In her 1922 book, The Pivot of Civilization, she outlined her theories of eugenics (control of the human race by selective breeding) and racial purity (3 years before Hitler did the same in Mein Kampf). The basis of her support of contraception was entirely due to her belief that inferior humans should be killed to enable a superior race to appear over time. Sanger did not just entertain popular ideas of her time – she was the champion of the cause. In her book she says: “the most urgent problem of to-day is how to limit and discourage the over-fertility of the mentally and physically defective.” She goes on to say: “possibly drastic and Spartan methods may be forced upon American society if it continues complacently to encourage the chance and chaotic breeding that has resulted from our stupid, cruel sentimentalism.” Birth control was, in her mind, “the greatest and most truly eugenic method.” Needless to say, Planned Parenthood today have tried very hard to distance themselves from their founder.

5

Democracy and Education

John Dewey, 1916

On the list because: it convinced the world that education is not about facts

In Democracy and Education, Dewey disparages schooling that focuses on traditional character development and endowing children with hard knowledge, and encourages the teaching of thinking “skills” instead. His views have had great influence on the direction of American education–particularly in public schools. This book could be considered to be the anti-classical education manifesto. And the consequence? A generation of youths with an inferior education which lacks a founding in solid facts and knowledge. Dewey was one of the three founders of the philosophical school of Pragmatism – a school of thought which proposes that “truth” is made and can change. The current curriculum in New Zealand is one which would please Dewey immensely as it is largely founded on his principles.

4

Baby and Childcare

Benjamin Spock, 1946

 On the list because: it caused deaths through bad advice

Regardless of whether you agree with the methodology of Spock, no one can deny that many children probably died of cot death as a result of his advice to put babies to sleep on their stomachs. This advice was extremely influential on health-care providers, with nearly unanimous support through to the 1990s. Spock believed that babies on their back can choke on their own vomit – leading to death. Scientists eventually found that Spock’s advice actually lead to more deaths by suffocation. Estimates of the number of deaths caused by this bad advice are as many as 50,000. Spock also advocated a method of child raring that moved away from discipline based methods. Previously, experts had told parents that babies needed to learn to sleep on a regular schedule, and that picking them up and holding them whenever they cried would only teach them to cry more and not to sleep through the night. Spock taught the exact opposite.

3

The Protocols of the Elders of Zion

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On the list because: it was a propaganda book designed to incite racial hatred

The Protocols of the Elders of Zion is a booklet that purports to describe a plot by world Jewry and Masonry to take over the world. Despite the fact that the booklet is a hoax, it was spread wide and far and believed by most Europeans to be true. Many people today still consider it be factual. It was instrumental to Hitler’s anti-Jewish efforts in Germany and it was used after the Russian Revolution to perpetrate hatred and violence against Jews. The booklet continues to be published and disseminated in many Middle Eastern states which are political enemies of Israel.

2

The Manifesto of the Communist Party

Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels, 1848

On the list because: it could win the award for the most malicious book ever written

This book has inspired some of the most brutal regimes in man’s history. Regardless of whether there has been a state which is a true Marxist state, this book has inspired so many evil actions that it can not be left off a list of this nature. Some of the principles found in the manifesto are the abolition of private ownership of land, confiscation of property of emigrants, heavy taxes, and the abolition of inheritance.

1

Darwin’s Black Box

Michael Behe, 1996

On the list because: It fuels fundamentalist attacks on Science

By arguing against aspects of Darwin’s theories, this book has given fuel to the fundamentalists who argue that a literal interpretation of the Book of Genesis is the only possible manner in which the earth was created. Despite much refutation from the Scientific community, many fundamentalists still use this as a “source” for proof that evolution is not true. The book itself was not peer reviewed as Behe claimed under oath, and the Science community has overwhelming rejected it. It should be noted that Behe himself is not a fundamentalist and does not believe in a literal interpretation of the Bible.

PS: The Photos in this post are just taken from various websites. I own none of them. 

A Great Wedding Idea (1)

-- Wedding Decorations Travel :)


Hope we can pull these off! 

P.S: These pictures aren't mine. I just got them somewhere . Feel free to get my attention if any of these is yours.  :)

The Day I Removed His Brand

An excerpt from my Journal on Fred's proposal...

Honestly, my faith on Marriage was slowly faltering. There were doubts, but on the contrary, I didn't lost hope. I know that regardless of the situation, my poor heart wont just say "No". My heart is meant to love him. My heart is meant to wait.

After more than 6 years of being together, there were points in our relationship where I felt his uncertainty about us. Actually, we didn't start like most couples do. No sweet courtship and frequent romantic "first dates". We started with... wait.. let me put it this way... WE STARTED OUR RELATIONSHIP BY WAITING FOR THE RIGHT MOMENT TO START A RELATIONSHIP.We started "formally dating" after a 5-6 grueling months of ambiguity. I kinda had a hint that my "Yes, tayo na!" answer was not in the most appropriate timing. All I remember is that, yes, he sounded happy. But he just let me wait and guess for the first 5-6 months.

Another moment: I remember one particular text of him wherein he expects me to let go of him once he found somebody new to love, but if ever destiny decides otherwise, we should give each another a chance. That particular moment was (and still is,) and awakening. It was 3 years ago, a midpoint in our relationship, and I still feel that kick whenever that message visits my memory. It was the sullen and toxic period of our relationship where changes are  affecting us so bad and our system are not adjusting to it very well. I can say, in a more understandable term, that we were growing apart. I wont deny that I have suspicions then; that its highly possible that there's someone else involved. Mind you, Fred is not like that; and those words will not just come out of nowhere. Maybe he likes somebody new, but then again, may be there's none. Maybe he isn't in love with me anymore. Well, I remember saying to myself at that time, "Hey, you're not unfamiliar with rejection, aren't you? No worries, you'll get the hang of it, eventually. And it'll be like before when you were just starting out." Regardless, I have no intention of losing  whatever it is that's left in me. Whether pride, self-respect or sanity, I really dont care at all. I just dont want to lose "everything" now. Not this time, not ever. 

That is the day that I branded Fred to be the "unmarrying kind" of man. Not nearly a husband material.

For the past few years, our relationship marveled. I cant remember the  point (which is why I kept on asking Fred) when he started to think about the future with me. Ever since that "Safety Cushion Scenario" (the term I coined for our "please-let-me-go-when-i-found-someone-new-but-lets-start-again-if it-doesn't-work-out" scenario), I know he has worked hard in restoring what I thought has been blemished and scarred. I know, ever since that bitter day, i haven't been comfortable with any discussions relating to  marriage. I mean, in the back of my mind, I still have some major "trust" issues. I have always believed that he can always replace me, and that what we have has always been based on just mere comfort and familiarity; not love or loyalty. Yes, i love him; but i have been very critical over his commitment since then. Yeah, yeah..I know its unfair, and  majority of our time together, I have poured so much energy on detaching myself to him. Due to fear, cowardice or pride, I dont know. All I know is that Fred did his best to restore our relationship.  We were never this happy, until he started opening topics on travel, wedding, house and other conversations about the future. Fred had never been wonderful since. I felt that he had a transformation that I will never understand how it came about. 

One thing is for sure, I removed that mark that I brand on his head. He is now... the man of my dreams.

The distance that we had when he went away to work in Ireland gave us the time and space that we need. I was able to miss him so hard; and we got a glimpse of how it is to live away from each other. I felt that he missed me. I felt his efforts to give me the life that we deserve. I felt his desire to build a future with me; and it really awakened my desire to work hard and be the woman that he'll be with for the rest of our lives. I fell in love deeper and deeper with the man that he become. I was waiting for him; and I know, he's bidding his time carefully.

 He caught me off guard when he proposed to me at Sky Park, Marina Bay Sands while we were on a trip to Singapore. I didn't know that he'll propose after a very tiring day of roaming around and last-minute shopping. I was totally harassed because of being so tired and stressed; and at the same time very irritated because of his seemingly lack of concern on the situation. I mean, I dont understand his "excited" face all day. But, since he just came back from Ireland and very much excited about traveling, I didn't complain. I just want him to be very happy and I didn't want to send the "I-AM-A-KILL-JOY-PERSON" vibe. And then that's it... he proposed after when we reached the top of the tower...his words says about "a lifetime of travel and happiness with you.. Will you marry me?". He showed me the engagement ring (that he designed himself!).. one with a 24 small diamond stones and 1-heart and arrows diamond, in an infinity position. It was wonderful. I even offered the wrong hand, so we thought that we had to resize. Yet, the left ring finger is just enough. 

Wonderful! Wonderful! The memory just brings so much giggles and smile in my face.

The best (and worst), I know, is yet to come. 

Regardless, I am very much excited to face all these with him.

Decisions

This is the first day of February. 

Well, now its 9 months before the photo shoots. And 11 months before the wedding.  

I am running out of time to get in shape.

I dont want to lose faith on God. But, I am really worried. My personal cash is out. My birthday's coming. And soon, our wedding fund will deplete. This wedding preparation is really tightening my patience and faith!

Our goal is to finish of the Supplier's List by August and September. I dont want to stress myself on other stuff by October, November and December. I want detail polishing by that time. In addition,  I want really, really neat turnover to my wedding planner. I just want to pamper myself on being single for the remaining three months.

Decisions have been made today. We opted for Ascott Residences to be my Official Bridal Suite on the actual day of my wedding. We booked 2 Units of 2-Bedroom Deluxe; one for Fred's and one for us. I plan not to see Fred anymore on the 11th. It's best if we miss each other on the day. And anyways, I'll be sleeping around 6 AM so, duh... no more late night gigs for us. 

We also finalized arrangments for Sam Gallardo (I added 9 more additional heads for the hair and make up) and Don Robert's Bridal Car Services. I have not yet selected the bridal car for me; but we are reserving two units of Nissan Urvan for our immediate family.

I texted Jezreel Anonuevo from One Love Photography to tell him that I'll be getting him to be my Wedding Planner. I hope he's as O.C as me; and that he can understand my demands and needs. 

I hope thing will be smooth sailing. Our drive is to finish the arrangements as early as possible and work for the payments the rest of the months. 

May God help us. :)

Wedding Preps

Damn, I'm getting married in almost a years time! Its exciting and nerve wracking!!  

Still eleven months to go. Gosh, I need to remind myself quite often that I need to calm down and get my thoughts together. Mind you, I dont usually rattle. On any endeavor, I pride myself with preparations and research! 

Yet, no matter how i seemingly armor myself with all these, I am still nervous! Geez!! 

Anyway, I am glad that we already have suppliers for the wedding. I trust them and that I believe that we have chosen the best among the field! :)

Church: 

SAN AGUSTIN CHURCH 

Beaterio St., Intramuros Manila

-- Truly, the church of my dreams! Wow!!! I am so glad that we have been blessed to have this church booked on the time and date that we soooo preferred! Our wedding will be on December 12, 2012... Really a very critical time for the "Wedding Capital of the Philippines"... 

Thanks to my Fiance for running so fast and beating that other couple who was just two blocks away (hope they had booked another good date; we're the last slot for the day eh.. yey for us!)

Caterer:

JOSIAH'S CATERING

34 East Drive Marikina Heights Marikina City Philippines

-- Choosing the Caterer, in my opinion, is the hardest part of any wedding preparations. It requires time, effort, patience and a really, really open mind. I mean, you taste a lot of stuff and plus, you got to remember them!  That's the critical part! You've got to determine and appreciate the distinction of each Caterer's dish to the other.  You can't just march on a plate served in front of you and eat. Remember... cross-refer the dish to the menu and compare. Typically, they serve at least two variations for each course. For example, Fred and I hate pork so, what we are very much on the look for are the best pasta and seafood viand. Josiah's Catering served us with very delectable dishes (not just seafood and pasta alone, wait till you see their desserts!). And plus, we really got a nice price for it! :)

Reception Venue:

LA CASTELLANA

Beaterio St. Intramuros, Manila

-- I can still remember how eager I am to put this venue in my "Dream Wedding Suppliers" when I was younger.. so I am quite satisfied that this is the venue that we have finally chosen for my wedding this December. I felt that everything is falling into its right place :)

Orchestra

MANILA PHILHARMONIC ORCHESTRA

#66 P. Paterno Street, San Juan

-- I received their Song List this morning!! Its so awesome!! Its no wonder that MPO is the most sought-after orchestra for weddings! Yey!!

Make-Up Artist:

SAM UNSON-GALLARDO

beatnikinblack.blogspot.com

-- I really felt at ease in her presence! Very quirky, and really adorable! I think Sam and I will have so much fun. She got really impressive clientele, including my Fiance's former officemate, Shermaine Mina :) I sooo love her work! Plus, the products she's using are really top of the line.

 I really feel that I made the wisest choice when I booked her during the fair at SMX Convention :) 

Photo and Video

ONE LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY Philippines

Ray and Lot Abalos

-- This team has a very impressive portfolio! At first, to be honest, Fred and I have difficulties in choosing the photo/video supplier. Our taste somewhat differ; and we are frugal on the costs. Top of the Line photographers are indeed expensive, but truly, I am a fan of them so it breaks my heart not to book them! Among these is Mr. Oly Ruiz of Metro or Mr. Lito Sy... pangarap na I need to give up :(

That is why when I saw their work at the fair, we booked them right then and there! They only cater one wedding a day, and they are soooo accommodating! I feel at ease to Ray because he continually asks for our needs, preferences and he shares vital information that he thinks will be useful! :) 

JUNNEL MARANAN will be our Videographer; and Ray says that he's truly talented! My soon-to-be wedding coordinator, JEZREEL ANONUEVO is also from One Love Photography; who is groomed, trained and endorsed by Ray is also amazing. I feel that he's incredibly great too!!

Well, we still have a long way to go. I have an extensive list of possible suppliers on hand; and I am very much willing to consider most of them, coz they are soooo good! 

Among these are:

1. Vatel Manila - Flowers by Dylan --website says he's fully-booked already for December... huhuhu! :(

2. WINK! Written in Ink for Invitations

3. Cakes by Imah -- a friend of Ours! :)

4. Cupcakes by Sonja -- for the Sweet Treats our Guests

5. Liqueur BonBons by Joanna Lim - Grabe, ang sarap! I am really impressed

6. Don Roberts Bridal Car

7. Sofitel Philippine Plaza

8. Jazel Sy Creations for my Gowns

Good Luck to us in this wonderful endeavor! :)

Welcome 2012!

Wishing Everyone a Prosperous and Abundant New Year!

Before you speak, listen.

Before you write, think.

Before you spend, earn.

Before you invest, investigate.

Before you criticize, wait.

Before you pray, forgive.

Before you quit, try.

Before you retire, save.

Before you die, give.

William Arthur Ward